Got a crush?
Trying to get to know someone but low-key terrified they won’t feel the same? Totally normal! Seriously, everyone gets nervous, and everyone gets rejected sometimes. It sucks, but it also means you’re putting yourself out there, and that’s brave.
They key is staying confident, remembering what sets you apart, and taking it one small step at a time.
How to break the ice?
- Be yourself
Trying to act like someone you’re not can be pretty exhausting. Plus the right people will vibe with the real you.
- Start small
If one on one feels scary, talk to them when you’re already in a group. It might help take some of the pressure off.
- Keep it light
Smile, laugh at their jokes, ask simple questions. Little things go a long way.
- Start as friends
Figure out what they’re into, music games, shows, hobbies, and see what you genuinely have in common. You can bring it up when you hang out.
- Use your phone for good
Send a funny TikTok, meme, or play a game together online. Find others ways to connect that might be less pressure.
Thing to avoid
- Don’t be rude or disrespectful
- Respect their boundaries and your own
- Don’t force anything.
If they’re not interested, it’s not a loss. It’s a sign that you have more room for people for do get you.